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Post by Ben on Dec 21, 2007 8:42:01 GMT -5
veeeeery long story short... I know who it is. Its a depressed, sad-sack. I tried to extend a helping hand to this guy on many occaisions, give him some counserling, some sympathy. and yeah because I wouldnt listen to his sob story this time (I said tuesday's a good time instead) caus I had to go to my friends 24th birthday he cracked it and instead of ringing my mobile he rang home and abused my parents. What the fucks this? I'm trying to help him and I get slapped in the face for it. he didnt ring any of those arsholes who dont extend their hand to him. heres proof that being a good guy gets you no-where. I'm actually a bit scared. hope he doesnt know where I live. he's told me stories about how he wants to murder certain people (his old boss, the cops that put him on trial for more death threats to other people) like fucking hell, the more I think about it the more its making me shit myself. Oh yeah I'm not one of those religious people that looks for depressed folk and tells them jesus can save them. I'm agnostic. just for the record he rings my mobile a bit. and normally I listen and try and give him some help. but Its not a fulltime job. I've got a life to live. WHAT SHOULD I DO? ? cut him loose? block his number? I just dont wanna get stabbed or something. I hope I'm not over reacting.
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Post by Aims on Dec 21, 2007 15:28:32 GMT -5
eek Sounds like he's not interested in getting help (or not ready to yet). The talk about wanting to murder people is pretty scary. Is he maybe on drugs also?
Even if he was a good friend before all this started, if he's starting to scare you and harass your family I'd say cut him loose. It's hard if you really want to help him, but I think after a certain amount of time when someone continually knocks back your offers of help there's not a lot you can do. If/when he wants to sort his shit out he knows where to find you.
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