so bored - Damn Husband

[Mary]

I have like the whole entire house I want to clean today. I'm just never motivated enough to get it done. I took a couple of days off from the forums and what not so thats a good thing. I rested up but now I'm just like confused as to where to start on my house. You'd have to see it, we have collected so much stuff over the past two years that we have lived here that there is literally too much stuff and I have to decide what goes and what stays. Even our furnature, we have this ugly white dresser we need to throw away and some towel rack thats ugly and taking up space too. Plus a broken bar stool we could deffinately live without. I think I'm going to throw away our baker's rack as well, it's black and ugly and since we are getting new stuff I don't see why I need it. Right now thought I need to clean this house cause they are bringing in new carpet on the 16th. Yay! But like oh it sucks sometimes living with a pig (husband) lol. He is a pig, he's a slob, he makes messes all the time and never cares about his messes until he realizes the house is destroyed and I mean destroyed as in hell around here. It's chaotic. I am a clean person. But lately I have been feeling guilty for his messes. So I'm tellin ya....I actually have to start putting my foot down on him lol.

so yeah all in all I have been the one feeling guilty. He goes to work so I should clean but I like my weekends too you know. And I know I don't do much but everyone in their right mind should be able to clean up after themselves, I'm not asking him to cook his own food though I must admit he loves to cook and is a great cook. But I shouldn't have to constantly be behind him with a broom and a dustpan. I need relaxation from this hell! I love him but geeeeeez!

Okay so this "I'm Bored" thread just turned into a wife against husband's messiness thread, my bad, I guess that was the root of my problem eh? I'M FURIOUS WITH ANGER! LOL!

Haullie

[Pinkdesaster]

Kisses and understanding to Haullie! I have to shamefully admit that I am a chaotic person as well, but I learned to clean up the chaos I left behind. Today I baked a cake, it´s amazing what one person can make dirty in one hour. Almost world record!

Kick his ass, it´s not your job as a wife to clean after you´re husband has destroyed the whole house.

Maybe you should do it together. Remember Mary Poppins..." every job that has to be done has an element of fun, you find the fun and snap...a spoonful of sugar makes the medicine go down...

[Mary]

every job that has to be done has an element of fun, you find the fun and snap...a spoonful of sugar makes the medicine go down...

I bow down to anyone who can remember that entire song hahaha!



Yeah I seriously need to like get the web cam together and pan around the house and show him when he gets home. Show him what a horrible mess he has made. I'm like the worlds most depressed person when I'm alone so I'm really pushing myself to get this done because emotionally I don't feel as if I'm capable. Sad huh? I miss him, but at the same time I wish he'd never step foot in this house again! MESS MAKER HUSBAND! But I love him BOO!

[Pinkdesaster]

Where has your husband has gone to?

[Mary]

right now he is away doing military stuff. Shooting guns ya know, hehe. One weekend a month he has to go away and this is actually a time of the year where he goes away an entire weekend and I don't see him. It's called A.T. (Annual training)

TOP SECRET! (Kidding hehe)

Love, Haullie

[mandy]

My husband doesn't do much around here, but he pays all the bills...so I'm happy. With me being in nursing school, I don't have as much time to keep things as clean/organized as I used to...but it never seems to bother him, so I guess that's good.

Haullie, you should not throw your furniture away. If it's in decent condition (even if it's ugly) you should donate it to the Salvation Army or some type of thrift shop. There are lots of families that would be happy to have your old stuff, who can't afford to buy pretty new stuff.

[Mary]

Haullie, you should not throw your furniture away. If it's in decent condition (even if it's ugly) you should donate it to the Salvation Army or some type of thrift shop.

Thats actually what I might do. Thank you.