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Post by sweetsangria on Dec 17, 2005 8:22:15 GMT -5
I had a pretty bad car accident yesterday and my car is totalled. No one involved was hurt, but I feel just terrible about the whole thing. It's a long story, but I will probably never know for sure if it was my fault or not. I feel sick to my stomach about it. My family arrives on Wednesday and I was so excited, but now I'm pretty much a wreck and on anti-anxiety drugs. I hope I snap out of it soon. Anyway, if you don't see me around too much the next few days, that's why.  |
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Post by Koalapupu on Dec 17, 2005 11:29:29 GMT -5
Oh my goodness. That's terrible! I'm so glad to hear that you are fine nevertheless!
Supporting thoughts coming your way.
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Post by matzy on Dec 17, 2005 13:29:37 GMT -5
oh my. i'm so glad you're doing ok, sabrina.
*hugs*
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Post by talulad on Dec 17, 2005 17:18:19 GMT -5
Much love to you. I don't think I have too much more to add... lol
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Post by immortalpudding on Dec 17, 2005 17:18:34 GMT -5
*lots of feel better vibes coming your way*
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Post by Aims on Dec 17, 2005 18:12:39 GMT -5
The most important thing is that you're unhurt.
I hope you're feeling a bit better by the time your family get there... I'm sure if not, they'll bring the cheeriness you need.
*hugs*
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Post by Ben on Dec 17, 2005 21:40:19 GMT -5
all the best sabrina. I was in a pretty nasty car accident that resulted in my dad having major back problems so I know where your coming from. I'm sending good vibes to you.
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Post by ♥Mary♥ on Dec 18, 2005 0:27:50 GMT -5
Oh, Rina.
Hugs and prayers coming your way. ♥
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Post by redcloud on Dec 18, 2005 5:39:17 GMT -5
I'm so relieved to know that you are unhurt. I hope that you can recover from the psychological damage soon. It's a great thing that your family visits you in a few days. It will sure cheer you up.
*hugs*
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Post by *Herry* on Dec 18, 2005 7:40:49 GMT -5
Sabsy, I'm ever so glad you're ok. As the feeling is still pretty raw for me, I kind of understand what's going on inside you. I often think about my near-miss and thank my lucky stars. I'm also grateful for one of the other drivers coming over to see if I was ok. I holding onto mum just crying, and when he came over, we talked about what had happened. Then, like a little lift, he just told me it was an unfortunate thing that had happened, but that I had to keep on driving. That made me 'snap out of it' and I actually drove the rest of the way home. It was weird, like he gave me energy, because before that, I felt paralysed. Mum had offered to drive, but I felt like that would have been wrong. I wanted to be responsible and calm and finish the journey as it had started (sometimes I think too much, I know). My step-dad later told me on the phone to keep thinking of the positive. It's hard to get your head around, but I think that looking at the positive side distracts you a bit. Anyway, petal, I am sending you all my feel better hugs, and passing on the same energy that the man gave me.  |
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Post by Natasha~ on Dec 18, 2005 12:54:25 GMT -5
Hugs and nugs Sabrina, I'm hoping and wishing for a full recovery for you, mentally and physically.
Much Love,
N~
xo
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Post by ♣Miranda♣ on Dec 19, 2005 17:32:38 GMT -5
Oh, honey. My hugs and prayers are with you. ♥
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Post by DaturaFae on Dec 20, 2005 8:18:15 GMT -5
I'm sorry that I didn't see this sooner.
*giant hugs*
I am so glad that nobody was injured.
I totalled my car (actually, it was my father's car) a few years ago and while I only had some minor cuts and burns from the airbag (not very short-person friendly) I can clearly remember the traumic emotional wreck. A month or so later, I was a passenger in another car that flipped over and got totalled. Needless to say, that made things worse.
While I can certainly not completely relate to your situation, I can understand what you mean about not knowing whose fault it really was. I remember the embarrassment, fear, and anger like it was yesterday. I know that it's very hard, but try not to focus on the blame. These things happen every day, to anyone, and replaying it will make it so hard to find the healing that you deserve.
No one was injured, remember that. That is, by far, the most important thing.
Hopefully, the warmth of the holidays and having your family near will ease your nerves a bit.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Take care. <3
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Post by ƒabio on Dec 21, 2005 19:36:44 GMT -5
Good to read you're ok honey...
Good to read it...
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Post by sweetsangria on Dec 22, 2005 19:37:39 GMT -5
I love you guys. Thank you so much for the support. It really helped. I had a ROUGH few days after the accident, but getting back to work helped. I'm feeling like myself again.   |
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Post by *Herry* on Dec 23, 2005 3:23:57 GMT -5
Wonderful, petal. You're a tough cookie |
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